Beyond Small Talk How to Keep the Energy Alive

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Beyond the Swipe is for men who want to attract women with confidence — not manipulation.

💬 Helping men stand out in online dating — without being a douchebag
📘 A no-fluff guide to real attraction, real connection, and real dates
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Suggested Reading Order:

1. Built Not Born: How Habits, Not Looks Make You Attractive
2. How to Approach Women Online the Right Way
3. Beyond Small Talk: How to Keep the Energy Alive
4. From Chatting to Reality: How and When to Ask Her Out

Beyond Small Talk: How to Keep the Energy Alive

Curiosity keeps a conversation alive — listen to understand, not just to reply.

Introduction

Getting a reply is one thing — keeping the conversation alive is something else entirely.
A lot of guys fall into the trap of asking the same tired questions: "How was your day?" or "Do you have a job?" and then wonder why the chat fizzles out after just a few exchanges.

Here’s the truth:
Women (and people in general) don't want to feel like they're being interviewed. They want to feel understood, appreciated — and most importantly, curious about you too.

In this chapter, we will talk about:

• How to avoid falling into the trap of repetitive, boring questions
• How to use what and why questions to create deeper conversations
• How to naturally weave in your own experiences to build a real connection
• Smart ways to invite counter-questions and keep the energy flowing

Ready to move beyond small talk — and actually spark real chemistry?
Let’s dive in.